The Journey That Led Me Here
Hi, I’m Jessica.
Transformational Love Coach, Dating Mentor, and soul-stirrer for conscious women ready to break old patterns and attract soul-aligned love from a place of truth, worth, and authentic embodiment.
But it wasn’t always this way.
Growing up, I wasn’t the girl getting asked out.
I didn’t have boyfriends, I never went to prom, and for most of my formative years, I felt unseen, undesirable, and alone.
By 28, I was newly divorced from the only man I’d ever seriously dated - suddenly navigating dating apps, mixed signals, ghosting, and breadcrumb connections that left me questioning everything about myself…especially my worth.
It was exhausting and deeply painful…and it cracked something open in me.
It wasn’t one big epiphany. It was a slow, messy wake-up call.
Dating became the mirror that showed me where I was abandoning myself…and where I was being invited to rise.
From Matchmaker to Love Mentor
Around the same time, my career was shifting too. After years as a singer and actress in NYC, I stepped into the world of professional matchmaking…not because I had “figured out love,” but because I desired more stability. A friend got me in the door, and I followed the nudge.
I never expected it to become the foundation of my life’s work.
Over the next decade, I interviewed thousands of singles and made hundreds of matches. Watching their patterns; the red flags, the fears, the fantasies, the sabotage, the moments of courage, was like watching my own story reflected back to me.
Matchmaking taught me how people love, what keeps them stuck, and what it actually takes to create real connection.
But more than anything, it taught me this:
Real love doesn’t begin with a match.
It begins with you.
How My Healing Became My Calling
While helping others navigate dating, I was doing the deep work within myself…the uncomfortable, transformative kind.
I healed the core wounds behind my patterns.
I got clear on my values, needs, and desires.
I learned boundaries, embodiment, intuition, and how to stop abandoning myself for love.
I dove into energy work, tantra, somatics, feminine embodiment, and spiritual practices that rebuilt my relationship with myself from the inside out.
As I shifted, my love life shifted with me.
I went from anxious, overgiving, and hoping to be chosen…
to grounded, magnetic, desired, and deeply confident in who I was.
I wasn’t chasing love anymore…
love was finding me.
That’s when I knew this wasn’t just my personal transformation…
it was my purpose.
I received coach certifications with renowned relationship experts like Katherine Woodward Thomas and Annie Lalla, integrated everything I learned through matchmaking and my own healing, and built the coaching framework I now call Manifest Love Coaching - where psychology, energetics, embodiment, and spiritual alignment meet.
How I Help
Today, I help conscious, self-aware, spiritually curious women heal the patterns that keep them stuck in painful dating cycles and step into the version of themselves that aligned love can’t help but find.
My work is about coming home to your truth - your worth, your intuition, your energy - so that the love you attract reflects the woman you’ve become.
I support women in:
✨ Releasing the patterns that no longer serve them
✨ Elevating their self-worth and inner confidence
✨ Dating with clarity, authenticity, and empowered boundaries
✨ Calling in emotionally available, soul-aligned partnership
Not through tricks or quick fixes -
but through the deep inner shifts that make love feel natural, grounded, and inevitable.
Who I work With
I work with conscious, self-aware women who are ready for a different experience of love. One rooted in truth, emotional safety, and soul-level alignment.
You’re my kind of client if you:
✔ Have done personal growth work, but love still feels confusing
✔ Fall into patterns of overgiving, shrinking, or people-pleasing
✔ Attract mixed signals or emotionally unavailable partners
✔ Feel drained by dating instead of empowered by it
✔ Crave partnership that meets you emotionally, spiritually, and energetically
✔ Are ready to choose from self-worth, not fear
✔ Are willing to go deep and show up fully for your next chapter
If you’re reading this and thinking, “That’s me…” I want you to know something:
You’re not broken.
You’re not behind.
You’re not too much.
You’re simply on the edge of your breakthrough,
and I’m here to walk beside you as you step into it.
If you’re feeling that inner yes, you’re welcome to explore my 1:1 coaching containers and see what support might serve you next.
A Few Things You Might Not Know About Me ✨
👩🏼❤️👨🏼 I’m a Third-generation Jewish matchmaker - love really is in my lineage.
🎭 Former NYC singer/actress (I starred in My Big Gay Italian Wedding).
🏳️🌈 Mentored trans youth for six years - I deeply believe love is for everyone.
🎶 Opera degree from a UK conservatory - music was my first love language.
🕊️ Level II Reiki healer and intuitive tantra practitioner.
🌍 After over a decade in NYC, I now coach women all over the world.
These pieces of my life weave into my work…
a blend of intuition, embodiment, creativity, and deep compassion.
Ready for Your Own Love Transformation?
If you’re feeling the pull, trust that.
Your love story doesn’t shift through force, it shifts the moment you choose yourself.
If you're curious whether private coaching is your next aligned step, I’d love for you to explore what’s possible.