How I Went From Divorced and Disconnected to Becoming a Love Coach

If you had told 17-year-old me that I’d grow up to become a love coach, I probably would’ve laughed… or cried. 💔

I wasn’t the girl who got asked out.
I didn’t go to prom.
I didn’t know what it felt like to be desired or chosen.
And for a long time, I thought love just wasn’t meant for me.

But the truth? I was always wildly capable of love — I just didn’t know how to give it to myself first.

Rewind to age 28…

I was newly divorced.
Fresh out of the only real relationship I’d ever had.
Suddenly single in the age of dating apps, ghosting, and “u up?” texts.

I felt like I was learning to walk in heels for the first time — completely unprepared, wobbling, and very aware that I might fall.

I overgave.
I chased.
I ignored red flags I painted green.
I measured my worth in text message response times and breadcrumb attention from men who couldn’t even name their feelings.

It was exhausting.
Confusing.
And, honestly, painful.

But deep down, I knew there had to be a different way.

So I went on a journey — not just to find love, but to become it.

I dove into energy healing, tantra, plant medicine, and Buddhist practice.
I studied with world-renowned love expert Katherine Woodward Thomas and became a certified Conscious Uncoupling & Calling in “The One” coach.
I worked as a top matchmaker for over a decade, helping thousands of people find love — only to realize…

The real transformation doesn’t happen when someone else chooses you.
It happens when you choose you.

That’s why I started Manifest Love Coaching.

Not to help people find “someone.”
But to help them stop settling, break old patterns, and become the version of themselves that love can’t help but find.

Now I work with conscious, heart-led women who are ready to go deep, rewrite their story, and date from alignment — not desperation.

Because real love isn’t found in a swipe.
It’s created from the inside out.

And when you become magnetic to your own truth, magic happens. ✨

💋 Ready to rewrite your love story and step into your magnetic era?
Let’s chat about how we can work together.

About the Author:

Jessica Stewart is the founder of Manifest Love Coaching. After walking through divorce and disconnection, she turned her pain into purpose and now helps women become magnetic to the love they deserve — by falling madly in love with themselves first.